If you’re over 60 like me, chances are you’ve spent years filling your home with memories, keepsakes, and—let’s be honest—a lot of stuff you don’t really need anymore. Hanging on to everything “just in case” is easy to do, but there comes a point when downsizing isn’t just practical, it’s a big act of kindness for yourself and your family.
Why It’s Smart to Downsize Now
Lots of us put off the whole decluttering thing, telling ourselves we’ll get to it later or thinking our kids can handle it down the road. But waiting can mean leaving a huge job for your family when they’re already dealing with a lot. Doing it now takes a weight off their shoulders and lets you have a say in what happens to your things.
When my dad passed, we went through his personal belongings and removed those from the home that he and my Ma shared. But then when Ma moved to an assisted living facility, we really had to downsize the whole home and trust me when I say it took months. Working Monday-Friday only left the weekends to tackle the work, and with help from just my husband and kids it was honestly overwhelming. Some weekends I avoided going to the house because it just seemed like a never-ending task. I told myself then that I wouldn’t put my children through that, but guess what? My house is full of STUFF – and I’m overwhelmed now trying to figure out where to start with lightening this load.
How Downsizing Helps You
- Less Stress: A tidy home is easier to care for and just feels better.
- More Freedom: Downsizing can make it easier to travel, move, or just live more simply.
- Extra Cash: Selling or donating stuff you don’t use anymore can give you a little financial boost or help a local charity.
It’s a Gift for Your Kids
When you go through your things now, you’re giving your kids the gift of time and peace of mind. Instead of sorting through everything when they’re missing you, they get to focus on remembering the good times. Plus, you get to make sure treasured items end up with the people who will really appreciate them.
How to Get Started (Without Getting Overwhelmed)
- Start Small: Tackle one closet or drawer at a time so it’s not overwhelming.
- Ask for Help: Invite friends or family over—it can be fun with company.
- Share the Stories: Pass down family keepsakes along with the stories behind them—those memories are precious.
- Think About Pros: There are folks who help seniors downsize, and they do it with a lot of care and understanding.
Look Forward, Not Back
Downsizing isn’t just about getting rid of stuff—it’s about making life easier for yourself and kinder for your family. Take the step now and you’ll feel lighter, freer, and ready for whatever comes next. Remember, this is your chance to celebrate the life you’ve built, while also making new space for things that matter most to you today.
You deserve a home that’s calm and comfortable, one that truly fits who you are now. Start downsizing and give both yourself and your loved ones the gift of peace of mind.
Have you found yourself in a similar situation? How did you start the downsizing work? Share your thoughts because I will take all the help I can get!